Woman Refuses Second Date After Man Doesn’t Pick Up Her Bill
When it comes to going out on dates, there are a lot of unwritten rules of what people should and should not do.
A man was taken aback when he learned that he might not have done what the woman expected him to do on their date.
Asking For Date Number Two
![Want To Go Out Text conversation of someone asking a woman to go out but the woman says no based on what they did last time. The person is confused as to what they did.](https://www.moneypop.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Want-To-Go-Out-53180.jpg?width=800&height=395)
The exchange, which was posted to Reddit, begins with a man asking a woman to go out on a date.
The woman seems shocked that he would ask her given what she said happened the last time. He wasn't sure exactly what he did.
They Had To Pay For Their Own Food
![Difference In Price Text conversation where person says that they were left to pay for their own food and drink. Person responds by saying their food costed a lot less.](https://www.moneypop.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Difference-In-Price-66407.jpg?width=800&height=446)
It turns out that he did not pay for her when they went out last.
He didn't think that he needed to because she invited him to dinner and she ordered a fancier meal.
Big Difference In Price
![Difference In Price Text saying that there was a big difference in their food prices and asking if they were going to be expected to pay for the total.](https://www.moneypop.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Difference-In-Price-53675.jpg?width=800&height=307)
He reminded her that the totals of their food and drinks were much different.
Her total would have been $122 American, while his was only $20. Since he was a student, that was not something he could have afforded.
Should He Have Paid For The Meal?
![Steak Dinner Steak and lobster dinner with a potato and vegetables on the plate.](https://www.moneypop.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Steak-Dinner-80162.jpg?width=800&height=1065)
So the question is, should he have been the one to pay for the full bill at the restaurant?
He is claiming that she was the one who invited him out and her total was much more than his.
Gentlemen Always Pay
![Gentlemen Always Pays Text message saying that they are very rude and they are never going on a date with them again. Also says that a gentleman should always pay for the woman's meal.](https://www.moneypop.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Gentlemen-Always-Pays-51134.jpg?width=800&height=448)
She was of the belief that the gentleman should always pay for the woman's meal.
She thinks if he wasn't prepared to pay for her meal, he should not have accepted her invitation.
Only Wanted One Thing
![Only Wanted One Thing Text conversation of one person saying they stayed while the other person talked about how they wanted to make out with another man. The response is that they only wanted sex.](https://www.moneypop.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Only-Wanted-One-Thing-94734.jpg?width=800&height=493)
He did not appreciate her response and said that he didn't like her talking about wanting to make out with another guy on their date.
That's when she accused him of just wanting to get into her pants.
Exchanging Insults
![Insults Text message that they did want to have sex with them but then they realized they didn't have the money. Response is that they are a bad person.](https://www.moneypop.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Insults-35360.jpg?width=800&height=280)
He did not deny that he may have wanted that, but he couldn't resist throwing an insult her way.
This may have just been something said in the heat of the moment, but she didn't appreciate it.
Sending Her Love
![Love Joseph Stalin making a heart with his hands.](https://www.moneypop.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Love-54324.jpg?width=800&height=608)
He decided to only respond with a picture of Stalin making a heart with his hands.
Who was really in the wrong in this situation? Would you expect your date to cover your tab if it was so much more than theirs?